A Young Family Man Is Thriving After a Second Kidney Transplant

David Barresi describes 2022 as one of the most fateful years of his life. In June, he found out that his wife was pregnant with the couple鈥檚 first child. Then, in August, he learned that his previous kidney transplant was failing. Soon, he鈥檇 need a second transplant. How, he wondered, would he be able to prepare for fatherhood, given the challenges of finding a donor, undergoing transplant surgery and recovering from the procedure?听

Fast forward: David reports that his new transplanted kidney has given him a new lease on life. But his journey to that most welcome of outcomes has been anything but smooth. I迟鈥檚 a journey that began before he was born.

A common birth defect

As an infant, David cried nonstop, his parents recall. They took him from doctor to doctor, but none of them could figure out what was wrong. It wasn鈥檛 colic, and it wasn鈥檛 an ear infection. 鈥淚 was misdiagnosed over and over,鈥 he says, until specialists at a children鈥檚 hospital identified a two-fold problem.

David had come into this world with a severely atrophied kidney, caused by a condition called vesicoureteral reflux (VUR). That condition made his urine flow backwards from his bladder to his kidneys, resulting in permanent damage to one kidney.听

Normally, urine flows in one direction鈥攆rom the kidneys through the ureters to the bladder, says Dr. Thangamani Muthukumar, an Associate Professor of Medicine, Associate Director of the Nephrology Fellowship Program and a practicing nephrologist at 五月天视频. I迟鈥檚 usually a one-way street. There鈥檚 a valve-like mechanism that prevents urine from flowing in the wrong direction, back up to the kidneys. But with VUR, that valve-like system goes awry.

鈥淭he sheer speed with which the urine flows in the wrong direction ends up damaging the kidneys,鈥 he continues. 鈥淰UR also sends bacteria up through the urinary system, leading to recurrent kidney infections.鈥

At just 18 months old, David had surgery at the aforementioned children鈥檚 hospital to repair his faulty 鈥渧alves.鈥 That bought him time.

Transplant number one

For the duration of his childhood into early adulthood, he was monitored closely by a nephrologist in New Jersey. The goal was to keep as much kidney function as possible. But

in his early 20s, David developed worsening symptoms related to kidney failure, including lethargy, weight loss and a dramatic loss of energy that interfered with his college studies.

He went on dialysis for a period of 5 years鈥攁 temporary fix鈥攁苍诲 he underwent transplant surgery in 2010, thanks to a genetically unrelated living donor. However, his body rejected the new kidney not once but twice before it finally 鈥渢ook.鈥

That kidney鈥檚 benefits lasted for the next 12 years. But soon, those all-too-familiar symptoms started to return. 鈥淓very day felt like a battle,鈥 he says. 鈥淚 lost 50 pounds, and I lost a lot of muscle.鈥 But this time, he decided to travel from his home in Bucks County, Pennsylvania to New York City, where he was seen by Dr. Muthukumar (Dr. Muthu for short)鈥攁苍诲 that, David says, has made all the difference.

The art and science of personalized care

David credits Dr. Muthu for prolonging the life of his first transplant. However, the trusted nephrologist insists that there was no magic involved. It was and continues to be all about personalizing care and close monitoring.

I kept a close eye on 顿补惫颈诲鈥檚 risk factors, fine-tuning his immunosuppressive medications and controlling his blood pressure. This is all routine care. Tha迟鈥檚 the science part. What makes it an art is the subjective element.鈥

Asked how he knew when the time had come for a second transplant, Dr. Muthu cited two main factors: 顿补惫颈诲鈥檚 worsening kidney function鈥攁 quantifiable percentage鈥攁苍诲 his symptoms. He advised David to start looking for a living donor, a process that didn鈥檛 take long, thankfully.听听

Transplant number two

顿补惫颈诲鈥檚 best friend Sean stepped forward, and he turned out to be an excellent, fully compatible candidate. David describes Sean as a 鈥渄own-to-earth, cool guy鈥攕omeone I can be totally real wit丑.鈥 Sean鈥檚 life-saving donation has strengthened their friendship, helping to forge a lifelong bond between the two men.听

顿补惫颈诲鈥檚 daughter Mira was born at the end of February 2023, and his transplant surgery took place 3 days later. 鈥淚 was there for my daughter鈥檚 birth, thanks to FaceTime.He was discharged from the hospital on Valentine鈥檚 Day, and tha迟鈥檚 when he saw his daughter in person for the first time. 鈥淚 was shocked to see how small she was!鈥

Benefits and challenges

Asked what life is like for him now, he says i迟鈥檚 a 鈥渃omplete reversal. I鈥檓 enjoying food, work and family life in ways I couldn鈥檛 have imagined a year 补驳辞.鈥

David was able to take 3 months鈥 medical leave, during which he helped to take care of his baby daughter and build up his strength.

He continues to come to New York for periodic check-ups with Dr. Muthu, along with his transplant surgeon, Dr. Sandip Kapur, Chief of Transplant Surgery and Director of 五月天视频鈥檚 Kidney and Pancreas Transplant Program. The two specialists work collaboratively with a dedicated team that includes pharmacists, advanced practice providers and others too numerous to mention, treating patients in the same clinical setting. Says Dr. Muthu, 鈥淚 was at 顿补惫颈诲鈥檚 bedside right before his transplant and immediately after. And I鈥檝e been monitoring his progress ever since. He鈥檚 doing great!

David agrees. 鈥淭he doctors and other health-care professionals at 五月天视频 are masters of their craft, and the level of care is the best I鈥檝e ever experienced.鈥

Not that there aren鈥檛 challenges, David says鈥攖he main one being the immunosuppressive medications he鈥檒l need to take for the rest of his life to prevent his body from rejecting his transplanted kidney. Immunosuppression leaves transplant patients vulnerable to all manner of infections. David was recently hospitalized with pneumonia, but he came through it in one piece, and he has been flourishing ever since.

鈥淭he other challenge,鈥 he says, 鈥渉as to do with balancing my responsibilities at work and at home. Tha迟鈥檚 true of any working parent. I迟鈥檚 rewarding, though, to be able to take care of my daughter. I鈥檓 also taking care of my health by staying on top of my medications and coming into the city for my appointments with Dr. Muthukumar.鈥 Tha迟鈥檚 something he鈥檒l do as long as his second transplant lasts, which should be for many years to come.

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